The key to making a girl obsessed with you is to first understand how she thinks.
Most guys get so caught up with getting a girl to like them that they forget one simple fact: Girls don’t think the same way as guys. And if you want her to desire or think of you, you have to learn what makes her tick.
The first step to doing this is to take the attention away from yourself. It isn’t about you, it’s about her.
Don’t think of what you want from her, think of what she wants from you.
Laying this mental foundation will give you a better feel for what you need to do to get a girl obsessed with you. Are you ready? Let’s dive in.
1. Establish yourself as high-value
So many guys think that girls will like them more if they show off the things that they own, like the sports car and the Rolex watch. Indeed, sometimes Yeah, this does pick a girl’s interest.
But it’s not important, instead of showing off, you want to be different and stand out from the crowd. And one of the best ways to do this is by talking about your vision.
Take Steve Jobs, for instance, the guy who invented Apple. He was a visionary. He always spoke about things he wanted to make or saw existing in the future. And then he did it.
He was extremely rich, but he also told others about the vision he had for Apple.
Now girls find this type of determination and hard work sexy and attractive. So if you want a girl to obsess over you tell her about your vision for your future and how you are going to get there.
Instead of just talking about your fancy sports car or your high-school achievements, live a life that you are proud of. Before you meet a girl, you should focus on creating a life that you’re proud of.
Interesting read: How To Make A Woman Think Of You (Psychology)
2. How to create an air of mystery
Be a little bit mysterious and hold back on some details.
When guys open up too quickly and tell girls everything about themselves, things can quickly become boring.
If you are going to be in a relationship with someone long-term, it’s great to keep learning things about each other along the way. This will leave room for some mystery and suspense, all of which will only intensify her desire for you.
Holding some things back before will make you seem mysterious and keep the girl guessing. She is going to start wondering what else there is to you.
You could tell her half of something but then keep the other half to yourself. For example, you can say “Yeah, I do work in marketing,” but then you don’t tell her that you own your own company.
And then a few days later, you slip it into a conversation. Boom!