I’m sure of one thing: no woman in this world hasn’t asked herself or her friends how to attract a man physically at least once in her life. I know I have. And it took me a while to find the answer.
At first, I couldn’t help but wonder why guys like big butts and boobs. Actually, I wondered if they were the only physical attributes they pay attention to in a woman.
And what happens if you don’t have these physical features? Are you doomed to fail?
Well, after much thinking, I realized that men are shallow but not that shallow. Yes, that’s right – there are other effective ways to attract the man of your dreams.
I bet you want me to share my secret with you. Well, all you have to do is read on:
How To Attract A Man Physically
Follow this 10-step guide, and your guy will develop a romantic attraction for you in no time!
1. The power of eye contact
No, this is not a cliche from cheesy rom-coms. Many men really do catch a woman’s eye before anything else.
Eye contact is everything, and the eyes are what attract men before any other part of your body or face. After all, they don’t say that the eyes are windows to the soul for no reason.
Why is that so? Well, because the eyes never lie, and you can tell a lot about a person by looking into their eyes.
Your eyes will display your charisma, your intentions, and much more about your personality. At the end of the day, every real man knows that these things are way more important than physical appearance.
2. Your body language speaks louder than words
If you’re wondering how to attract a man physically, use your body language before anything else.
First of all, make sure you always sit or stand next to him. Use every chance you get to “accidentally” touch him.
If there is a chance to do so, dance with him. Whenever you greet him, hug him and kiss him on the cheek.
Don’t be shy about it, and don’t think this behavior makes you overly pushy. What’s wrong with a little flirtation?
Besides, your body language signs are how you show him that you don’t lack self-esteem. You’re the kind of woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it.
3. A smiling face is a beautiful face
One of the things men love about women is their smiles. No, you don’t necessarily have to have perfect teeth – what matters is that your smile is genuine.
Trust me, attractive people are never grumpy. Instead, they always look like they’ve just received the best news in the world.
Besides, negativity is a huge turn-off.
4. Dress to impress
Do you think that attractive women have a perfect body? Absolutely not!
So, what is their secret? Well, they wear clothes that suit their body type the most.
The same goes for their faces. They use contouring, mascara, eyeliners, lipstick, and other make-up to literally reshape their faces.
But let’s get back to the dressing part. Even though many men will tell you that they go crazy when a woman wears a red dress, the secret is not to wear red for the rest of your life.
Instead, what you should do is be dressed for the occasion. Of course, don’t forget to hide your imperfections and highlight the best parts of your body.
Also read: 8 Signs He’s Slowly Falling In Love With You
Less is more
There is a golden rule you must never forget: less is more. That goes for most things in life, including clothes and make-up.
Look, if you have trouble choosing the perfect outfit, stick to the basics. I’m talking about matching colors here before anything else. Let me give you a little tip: you can never go wrong with black!
The same goes for make-up. Don’t use eyeliner if you still haven’t mastered the art of putting it on.
It’s much better for a woman just to wear mascara and lipgloss than exaggerate everything.
5. Your personality
When you asked me how to attract a man physically, I’m sure you didn’t expect me to talk about your personality. However, it’s impossible for your potential mate to fall for you if he doesn’t like your personality traits.
First and foremost, you have to be friendly and approachable right from the very first time you meet him. Remember, that first impression is everything!
If you go out on a first date, do your best to make him laugh. Trust me – men fall for women with a good sense of humor.
Show him that you have enough self-esteem but don’t be egocentric either. Make him realize that you’re just a human being with your share of flaws and vulnerabilities, and he’ll make the first move.
6. The right perfume does wonders
When a man feels intoxicated by the perfume he likes on a woman, he starts to like her too. This is actually one of the oldest but also one of the most useful tricks in the book.
You don’t have to do much. You don’t have to make the first move or engage in childish mind games to draw his attention.
You can be the shiest woman in the world, but you’ll still pull this off.
Just find out your man’s favorite scent. Buy it and puts loads of it on yourself.
All you have to do is be as close as possible to your potential mate. Things will sort themselves out from that moment on.
Interesting: 10 Sure Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings For You
7. Personal hygiene is non-negotiable
I can’t emphasize this enough: personal hygiene is not optional, and you can’t choose when to practice it and when to skip it.
You can’t expect to attract a guy if you have bad breath or if you don’t shower regularly. The same goes for your hair.
I won’t lie to you – men prefer long hair. However, if you have trouble keeping it tidy and clean, it’s better to get a new haircut.
Also, don’t forget to take care of your skin. Find a skin routine that suits you best and stick to it on a regular basis.
8. Your body is your temple
Look, you don’t have to look like a supermodel. Nevertheless, good health is attractive. Yes, that includes being physically active.
Keep in mind that your body is your temple, and you’re the only one responsible for keeping it fit and healthy.
Eating healthily, hitting the gym, and drawing the attention of the opposite sex will become a piece of cake.
10. Displaying feminine energy
This might infuriate many, but here’s the truth: your potential mate must feel man enough with you before he sees you as long-term relationship material.
This means that you must find a way to trigger his hero instinct, and you can’t do that unless you master the art of displaying your feminine energy.
As I said, the first impression is everything. When you two meet for the first time, act like a damsel in distress.
Be gentle and pretend to be more vulnerable than you actually are. Don’t be too loud and pushy. Instead, show your shy side – the side of a girl who is impressed by this guy’s macho looks and personality.
Instead of making the actual first move, inspire him to do it. When you get to know each other more, ask him for help once in a while.
I could go on, but you get the picture. Trust me – this approach will help you more than everything else combined!
What Attracts A Man To A Woman First?
Surprisingly, most men don’t actually notice a woman’s curves right away. Instead, they feel the strongest physical attraction to women through a hairstyle they like and to women with the widest smiles. There are also many men who notice a woman’s hands and her perfume before anything else.
What Body Parts Attract A Man?
Most men are attracted to curves – there is no doubt about that. They like boobs and butts, but that doesn’t mean they only feel sexual attraction towards big boobs and butts, no matter what.
They also pay a lot of attention to the waist to hip ratio and female body proportions in general.
Of course, we mustn’t forget about long legs – a lot of people consider them the most attractive part of the female body.
To Wrap Up:
Now that you’ve learned how to attract a man physically, use this knowledge wisely. However, please don’t be selfish about it.
Pass it around to other desperate women who are clueless about these tips and tricks. Remember: both you and I were just like them once.