Making a girl horny isn’t complicated. The only thing that will make it difficult is your hormones. 

Here’s the thing: Most men easily get aroused. And as a result, they naturally want to hurry up the process. Some almost want to finish before they start. 

However, for the majority of women, arousal works differently. Everything you do, both inside and outside the bedroom, determines how much she’ll enjoy those intimate moments with you. 

Learning these steps isn’t about playing mind games or having sex with as many girls as possible. That’s a dream for sixteen-year-olds. This is a serious guide for those who want to experience great moments with the woman they love. 

Here’s the truth: 

It’s much easier to get a woman horny when you truly care about her. When you love someone, you pay attention to their body.

Naturally, you’ll want to take care of her and make sure she enjoys every moment with you. When she’s experiencing pleasure, you are experiencing pleasure too. That said, follow these steps to make a girl horny before sex. 


1. Put her mind in the right place 

The number one thing that prevents a woman from enjoying a sexual experience is her mind. If her mind isn’t into it, she will probably pull away even if you get a chance with her. 

For women, sex is more mental than physical. The more you help a woman feel accepted, attractive, sexy, and safe, the freer she’s going to be with you. Providing a safe space frees a woman’s mind and puts her in the moment. If you make her trust you and feel comfortable with you, then she can release her body. 

2. Be honest about what you want 

Here’s the thing: Most men are not honest about wanting sex from women. And it’s understandable. These men don’t want to seem like the majority of men out there who only want women for sex. It’s a noble goal and there’s nothing wrong with it. 

However, there are a lot of ways to prove to a girl that you desire her beyond her body beside frowning at the mention of ‘sex.’ 

Don’t freeze or shrug it off when the topic of sex comes up. Embrace your masculinity and ride with it. This will show maturity, that you’re up to the task when the time comes. There’s nothing wrong with telling a woman that you desire her sexually after you’ve intimately connected with her. 

3. Respect her 

Everything you do with your woman is a form of foreplay. Foreplay isn’t the thing you do 3 minutes before sex. It’s the way you relate with each other in the kitchen, the sitting room, when you’re out, in the bathroom, and the bedroom. 

All these experiences are your opportunities to bond with her deeply. Take every chance you get. Be a gentleman and show that you care about her. No woman wants to feel like you’re just using her. 

Respecting her shows that you don’t just care about her body, you also care about her as a person. And this, of course, will open her up and make her feel safer around you. 

4. The first step in the bedroom

If you want to have a good sexual experience with your partner, the foreplay shouldn’t start five minutes before penetration, it starts the moment after sex. 

Before you get anywhere close to her vagina, use your words to arouse, excite, and seduce her. You can embrace her from behind, bring your lips close to her ear, and whisper something exciting and arousing like, “I love the way you look.” or “I can’t control myself when I see you from behind like this.” This will turn her on. 


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5. The right way to kiss her

Many women find kissing very vital to arousal. The softness and wetness of the lips build tension between a man and woman. And this can be very effective in arousing her. 

When you approach her, start kissing her very gently, just brushing your lips against hers at first before going into more wet and fuller kisses. Slowly build on that until she’s ready for more passionate kissing. 

6. How to touch her and get her wet

Most men will be tempted to go straight to her erogenous zones. Don’t do that. Start with other parts of her body like her arms, neck, legs, her face, her thighs. These are all great places to start the touch from. Why? 

Touching her in this manner creates tension. You have to get the arousal from the outside to the inside. Start with her less erogenous zones before proceeding to more sensitive parts like her breast or clit. She’s more likely to get wet if the arousal is slow, seamless, and natural. 

The trick is to build tension and anticipation. Take your time. Caress her, lick her, stroke her, build up the pleasure so that when you proceed to the more sensitive parts, she’ll be on fire. 


Also read: 15 Secret Ways to Tell A Girl Is Feeling Horny Around You


7. Proceed 

The first time you touch her vulva is a defining moment in the arousal process. Most men want to just put their hands in rubbing the surface vigorously, don’t do that, at least not yet. 

At first, you want to just gently cap her vulva with your palm and just hold it there while you kiss her or just look into her eyes. You’re patient. You’re moving slowly and it relaxes her. Slowly she will surrender to the pleasure and soften to your touch and caresses. 

After a few minutes, you can start gently moving your hand around the vulva, followed by gentle strokes all over the vagina. This will quickly build tension and send chills all over her body. 

8. The right dynamic for arousal

After you’ve spent some time building up arousal in her body, follow that up with a few moments of slowness. This allows her body to integrate the pleasure and relax. Why? When you focus too much on building pleasure alone, you might overwhelm her body. 

As you’re playing with her entire body, kissing her and stroking her, also tease her. This helps create a dynamic of tension and relation. This is magical. 

Learn to take breaks and just relax. It’s like letting food digest before taking in more. This is how the body gets to the limit of arousal. 

9. Proceed when she’s ready 

After at least 20 minutes of arousing her, you can ask if she’s ready to be penetrated (sometimes you’ll sense this through her body language). You can also tell if she’s ready by her wetness. 

Here’s a pro tip: Even if she’s ready, you can make her wait a bit longer for it. This will make her surprised and even more aroused. Why? Women are used to men jumping into sex. When you wait, you show that you’re different. Plus, delaying pleasure will only make her want it more. 

Final thoughts

If you want to get a girl horny, make sure she feels safe and secure. 

Pay attention to her and be in the moment. Be genuine, be attentive, and be generous and soft with your touch. And most importantly, relax and have fun. 

When it comes to making someone feel good sexually, the best approach is always the relaxed and easygoing one. Experiment a little and see what works for both of you. With a bit of practice, you’ll become a pro at turning your lady into a horny little minx.


Related: 10 Signs She Is Sexually Attracted to You


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