1. Quick breakfast in bed
If you’re someone that loves to cook, making breakfast in bed for your partner won’t be that difficult; except you’re not a morning person. But what sacrifice can we not make for someone we love so dearly?
Breakfast in bed doesn’t have to be a complex food buffet, you can put together something as simple as toast bread, eggs, and tea on a tray. And slices of fruit by the side for an extra touch.
The most difficult part of making breakfast in bed a success is waking up as early and quietly as possible before your partner wakes up.
2. Surprise love notes
“Hi babe. Choosing you is the best decision I’ve made in my life”.
As simple as that is, it can go a long way to spice up your relationship. Imagine the smile on your partner’s face when he/she reads it.
It’s sexy and easy to do. Your love notes can be a text message, written on sticky notes and placed on your bathroom mirror if you guys live together, or it could be written on a sheet of paper and placed in your partner’s purse/wallet, the sit of your partner’s car or anywhere you’re sure they’ll check to easily find them.
3. Random gift items
I’ve watched Korean movies where a partner buys matching clothing items for both partners to wear in public. Although this can be sexy for some people, I just see it as being too unrealistic and childish.
But if you find that as something cute you’ll like to do, I don’t see anything wrong with doing that. Just make sure it’s something your partner will like.
However, choosing to get gift items that will be very useful for your partner is very important, so you don’t end up wasting money or get your house cluttered with stuff either of you wouldn’t eventually find useful. That is why it is advisable to know what your partner likes before getting something for them, or you could ask them stylishly for something they desire at that time.
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4. Ticket to a fun event
If your partner loves sports and there’s a game coming up, you can buy two tickets for the game as a surprise.
If she’s got a favorite artist that’s performing in the city you live in, you can decide to buy tickets to the concert but make sure she hasn’t gotten the tickets already. Taking time out with your partner to do things he/she loves doing can be a sexy way to surprise your partner.
5. Stress relief treat
Out of all the points listed, this is the sexiest way of surprising your partner. Planning a date with your partner to the spa would be an awesome time together. After all, you both deserve some pampering for the hard work of living.
However, if you think going to a spa would be beyond what your pocket can handle, you can bring the spa home. You can learn some messaging techniques online and make do with some items you already have at home.
6. Portrait of them (or of you both)
If you’re confused about what to get for your partner on his/her birthday or any anniversary, a portrait would be a great surprise present.
Getting a portrait of your partner done wouldn’t just be a kind gesture but a sign that you think of them a lot. We love seeing ourselves looking good. It could be a portrait of your partner alone or a portrait of both of you.
7. Surprise trip
Everyone loves getting away sometimes. It’s very important for our mental health. You don’t necessarily have to take a trip to a far-distant city.
You can decide to go on a road trip to a nearby beach, or campground, just make sure you go to places different from where you always go to. Take pictures, and make videos of you while you’re having fun.
The most important part of this is the memories you take with you to reminisce about in the future.
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8. Write a special song
Writing a song for your partner is a very romantic way of surprising your partner. What if you can’t actually write a song?
Well, you don’t have to be a professional songwriter before you can surprise your partner with an originally composed song for him/her.
However, you can contact a friend who can. You can write a song about the memories that you have shared since the beginning of your relationship, or about a special day, or a song to appreciate your partner’s personality.
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9. Random acts of service
If you’re someone that finds it difficult to do some chores in the house and your partner always wished you’d help out once in a while, well here’s your chance for a big surprise.
You can decide to wash the dishes, mow the lawn, trim the bushes, do that thing that you have been putting off for a long time, do the laundry, take the children to school when it’s not your turn to, assist in preparing dinner, surprise your partner at work with lunch, and there are so many other amazing things you can do.
10. Support his/her career goals
Although this point may not involve sex, I see supporting your partner’s business and career as a very sexy and romantic way of surprising your partner.
Now here’s the thing:
Your partner is a YouTube or a content creator and she’s thinking of ways to scale higher on her career, you showing up with a brand new set of gadgets to make her content amazing will make her go crazy (in a good way).
Your thoughtfulness and the timeliness of your surprise will not be easily forgotten by your partner.
11. Bonus point: Romantic dinner with a happy ending
Imagine coming back home and noticing that your partner is already in the house. You smell the rose pets on the floor with some candles lit by the corners of the house.
The living room was arranged and clean with a fresh aromatic smell from the candles filling the air. You go to the bedroom and find more rose petals on the floor leading to the bed and then a heart-shaped box of chocolates.
The next thing you see is your partner coming out of the shower wearing sexy clothes and smelling good. Now he/she asks you to go take a shower and head to the dining room for some home-cooked dinner made especially for this night.
And after dinner comes the happy ending. I know this sounds like something we see a lot in movies but it can be done once in a while at your home. Just try not to be extravagant.
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